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  1. Theatre principles & techniques: to BE able to express yourself in tune with your audience – external
  2. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) profiling and psychology; to BE able to manage emotions, yours and those of others – internal
  3. Constellations; unlock the shackles, the dynamics and patterns, from the living systems you move in – relational

You may be eligible for free use of toBE services. Read on to find out how.


Theatre-based coaching develops your impact through the 3 layers of being: external, internal & relational. A bespoke, surprising experience for each client. 


Constellations bring to the surface deep-rooted, often unacknowledged, beliefs. How this may serve you and how to move where it doesn’t.


Receive your personal Profile showing you how you presently use these innate abilities in relating to others and your self. Learn how to utilise them to their fullest.


1, 2 or 3-day experiential Workshops to BE able to express yourself, to BE able to manage emotions, to BE resilient with your inner & external turbulence. 

Dates & Booking

Typical challenges individuals or groups come to toBE for are:

  1. What we/I stand for, is not heard, seen, acknowledged strong enough. In interviews, presentations, communications, by important audiences; by family or friends.
  2. Emotions, those of others or my own, get in the way.
  3. Somehow we/I am stuck; unable, after trying various ways before to: respond to particular behaviours; interact with specific audiences; to progress our/my area of expertise, advocacy subject.

You may be eligible for free use of toBE services. Check here for more details and how to apply. 

Petra Oorthuijs

Guided by her values, Petra’s energetic style of open curiosity, tough love and sharp focus brings you clarity and confidence in who and how you are.  Shining a light on your story. Allowing you to find effective ways to share your story with those who need to know.

Over 30 years Petra Oorthuijs trains, coaches & lectures in Leadership, Master Communications, Presence & Authenticity and EQ. 

Since 2015 she immersed herself in Constellations, the (eco-)systemic perspective. Challenging, continuously, set answers to be Human, seeking to ask the cathartic questions; learning to pay attention deeper and wider.

Petra generously shared, and increasingly does, her time & expertise with organisations and people who may not have the financial means to employ her. Check here if you may be eligible for free use of toBE services, and how to apply. 

Here you can find dates for and book on our Workshops & Constellations days.

Petra Oorthuijs